tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314571900243142661.post4122480970201669834..comments2024-01-08T15:14:08.389-07:00Comments on Chronic Migraine Warrior: Lessons: Grace & Forgiveness (Part 3)Jamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12251221896260997647noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314571900243142661.post-32113785453748183902013-04-01T11:34:52.338-07:002013-04-01T11:34:52.338-07:00Thanks for sharing. I think you're so right. I...Thanks for sharing. I think you're so right. It's such a complex dynamic to deal with. I know it has to be difficult to accept the limitations that I now have. Sometimes, though, it just seems like if someone can't figure out a way to deal with it (not that it's completely up to the other person, but I don't always know how else to help someone come to terms with it), that sometimes it's better to part ways. I don't like feeling weighed down by relationships - by feeling that I always have to be the one that tries to keep contact or feeling that I have to nearly beg for any level of support. I don't know if any of that makes sense. Your response has given me a lot to think more about.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12251221896260997647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314571900243142661.post-78849546627764210622013-03-31T08:55:22.762-07:002013-03-31T08:55:22.762-07:00I have migraines every other day. I have empathy ...I have migraines every other day. I have empathy for your situation. On forgiveness, perhaps you are confusing being critical with judgement? I mean, isn't being critical actually judging that others SHOULD be a certain way? So doesn't that engage Biblical issues about judgement (judge not lest ye be judged) as well as free will (if you think others SHOULD act in a specific manner aren't you requiring they act in your way and not theirs or God's)? I'm making these suggestions based on my own journey of wishing others would treat me in a specific manner and on disappointment, finding what I actually needed to do was not to judge how others should behave. I don't feel sad about such things now, though I'd like to be better understood I believe people are really just doing the best they can and I accept and love them for that best of their effort, I guess now that I think of it, as they must have to accept my limitations? I mean, how much fun is it to be around us? LOL... Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com